Thursday, August 30, 2012

SAY GOODBYE TO THE OLD ME


August 30, 2012 -SAY GOODBYE TO THE OLD ME 

SAY GOODBYE TO THE OLD ME

The recent loss of a friend has caused me to me far more introspective regarding how I spend my time as a person.  Am I a good person?  Do I do enough to help others?  The lovely lady, Kim that I spoke of yesterday helped a great many people-her impact was expansive.  The examination of all the folks that I know who were touched by her life’s work was revealing…I want to be a better person.

Have you ever felt this way about anything? Do you have any things in your life that make you want to be a better person?
  •  Does the special person in your life make you want to be a better partner? 
  • Does your job make you want to be a better employee or your company make you want to be a better entrepreneur or philanthropist?
  • What about your car? Does it make you want to be a better driver?
  • Does your church make you want to go out and disciple to others?

Is there anything in your life that would make you say:  "I owe this the very best that I have to offer!"

As a Christian, friend, and coworker, I frequently meet people who think they are “stuck”.  Often, the truth of the matter isn’t that they’re stuck, it’s that they just haven’t found something that demands the very best they have to offer – something that makes them want to be a better person.

Well, what if the answer isn’t something outside of yourself?  What if it’s not a person or a thing?  What about your life itself?

Just for fun – imagine that you woke up tomorrow with the feeling that you owe yourself the very best you have to offer!

What would that day look like to you?

Imagine living like that for just one day! How would that feel?

How To Be A Better Person – An Experiment
I would like to suggest something.  I would like to suggest that you make up your mind, right now, to do this as an experiment.  You don’t have to tell anyone what you’re up to, you don’t have to recruit others to do it with you and you don’t need to make a big deal out of it.  Just wake up with the attitude that no matter what happens throughout the day, you are going to give your life the very best you have to offer!  You are going to live your life in a way that makes you want to be a better person.  Be warned, this new approach could change everything!







Wednesday, August 29, 2012

SAYING GOODBYE TO A FRIEND


AUGUST 29, 2012 - SAYING GOODBYE TO A FRIEND 
SAYING GOODBYE TO A FRIEND 

Country music is full of emotion: joy, sadness, anger, jealousy.  You name it, country music has it.  And sometimes, it mirrors how we feel when someone we know is effected by illness.  Angry, sad, hopeful.  Toby Keith wrote "Crying For Me" about his friend Wayman Tisdale...and it speaks to me about how I feel at the loss of a friend.

Cancer is a thief.  It robs you of your joy, your strength, your life.  Sometimes you fight it and win...and sometimes you don't.  God helps you, whatever the outcome.  As a cancer survivor, I have the feeling that my winning is only temporary-it's just a feeling-not a fact.  But through prayer and grace, I go on.  In my journey I have met many survivors, and I have met others who have fought and lost.  A lovely lady that I came to be acquainted with in the past couple years was taken this week, far too soon by cancer.  

Kim Mothershead was a gentlewoman, a lady.  Graceful, loving, and kind. There are thousands who know and love her--far better than I did.  But she never failed to be generous and kind to me, or anyone that she came in contact with.  She gave generously of her time and money, and inspired others to do the same.  I would urge you to read some of her story: 
http://www.semissourian.com/story/1887883.html 

I thought about sending flowers, but then I remembered that she would have preferred something that would help in the community.  So my memorial will go to the Safe House for Women.  I feel she would like that.  But I wanted to do more.  I wanted to encourage YOU to do more.

Please find a way to help others in your life.  Memorial contributions for Kim may be given to the Safe House for Women, United Way Grace's Reading Program, 
Wounded Warrior Project or the SEMO University Foundation for Athletics, Education or the River Campus. 


But there are more ways:
Help fight cancer with 
http://www.cancer.org/  or  http://ww5.komen.org/ 

Support local activities:
http://rethinkchurch.org/impact-event/serve-2012?quicktabs_impact_events=1#quicktabs-impact_events 

Donate:
to the local food bank:  
http://www.firstpccape.org/id22.html 
to help others around the world:  
http://www.toms.com/our-movement/ 

Volunteer:
with children:  
http://www.discoveryplayhouse.org/AboutUs.aspx 
or the disabled:  
http://www.sadi.org/ 

LIVE LIKE YOU WERE DYING!  Be bigger than you are today...bigger than you think you can be!  Live, laugh, love!  Help honor the memory of those who have gone before us, and be all that you are meant to be...I know I am trying. JOIN ME?!

Monday, August 27, 2012

SLIPCOVERS ARE FOR ME!


AUGUST 27, 2012 - SLIPCOVERS ARE FOR ME! 
SLIPCOVERS ARE FOR ME!

So, my dear friend and former employer Deb Bruns has this great little slipcover boutique-UnderCover-and I had her slipcover my cute loveseat for my office!  I could have gotten one of those online stretchy ones...but no. I knew that she could do better than the generic...look how fabulous!



Check out my cool Minnie Pearl poster! lol


Here is a generic stretchy one that I decided not to settle for: bleh.  But we do have the stretchy type on my husband's recliner-like the one on the right.

  


You can find great ways to redo, lots of them online, but custom was the way to go for my sweet little garage sale find!
Visit  undercoverslipcovers.com  for photos and pricing!  I love my new slipcover, and I feel like you would love one too!

Here are some links to the info and blogs that I found online:

http://designholeonline.com/2009/instant-room-makeovers-slipcovers-revealed/

http://designholeonline.com/2009/chair-of-the-day-wisterias-slip-covered-armchair/


Friday, August 24, 2012

HIGH SCHOOL FOOTBALL PREVIEW


AUGUST 24, 2012 - HIGH SCHOOL FOOTBALL PREVIEW 

There was a great football preview section in the SE Missourian on Thursday, but if you did not get a look at it, here is a link for the "capsules" of the section:  
http://www.semissourian.com/story/1885750.html

This should be a warm first night for the 2012 high school football season, so be sure and get yourself and your family hydrated.  Even if you do not have a child in the school district, get out and enjoy the community and team spirit that high school football builds.  Your tax dollars go to support local high schools, and you can and should enjoy being a part of what you provide for the children in our area.

Jump on the spirit train-and ride to the victory station!  Enjoy!

Wednesday, August 22, 2012

24 SCHOOL LUNCH TIPS


AUGUST 22, 2012 - 24 SCHOOL LUNCH TIPS 
24 tips for packing a healthy, affordable lunch
Damaris Karanja, MA, Nutrition and Health Education Specialist, St. Louis County, University of Missouri Extension

School is back and you probably went to great lengths to ensure your child has the right equipment — pens, notebooks, clothing — to make it through the day. Proper nutrition is also a key ingredient for back-to-school success because it fuels brain cells, and gives your child the energy and nutrients he or she needs for optimal learning. Packing your child’s lunch lets you know exactly what he or she is eating. Follow these tips and not only will you save money, but you will pack a nutritious lunch that your child will enjoy.

Save money!
 
1.    Invest in a good container. Choose an insulated bag and freezer packs to keep food at a safe temperature.
2.    Use washable and reusable containers. Avoid using plastic sandwich baggies. Buy containers in a variety of sizes to fit your lunchbox needs.
3.    Buy in bulk. Avoid single-serve packaging. You save money when you buy in bulk and pack it yourself into single servings. Buy a large container of yogurt or pudding and use 4-ounce containers to pack your own. Buy a block of cheese and cut it into cubes or shred it. Buy crackers in boxes, rather than individual packages.
4.    Make your own. Look beyond lunch meat. Slice your own meat or grill chicken breast and cut it into strips or cubes. Avoid prepackaged lunches since they are highly priced.
5.    Send in leftovers. Invest in a good insulated food container to keep food warm. Homemade soup is always a good option.
6.    Buy what is on sale and use coupons. Get whatever is on sale each week and work it into a menu. Use fruits and vegetables that are in season.
7.    Buy store brand and compare unit prices.
8.    Look high and low — bargains are usually on the top or bottom shelves, not at eye level.
9.    Plan ahead and have a list when you go to the store. The more time you spend in a store, the more money you spend.

Make it nutritious!
 
10.  Pack a rainbow! Provide a variety of options — the more color, the more nutrients.
11.  A healthy lunch should contain foods from each of the five food groups: Carbohydrates, protein, dairy, fruits and vegetables. Choose whole-grain products like bread, tortillas, pita bread, bagels or whole-grain crackers. These are more nutritious, have more fiber, vitamins and minerals, and keep blood sugar steady for optimal learning.
12.  Select protein foods wisely. Use lean meat like chicken or turkey breast, hard-boiled eggs, tuna packed in water, beans or peanut butter. Protein in every meal helps keep blood sugar steady.
13.  Buy fruits and vegetables that are in season and serve them creatively. Examples include baby carrots with yogurt dip or other cut vegetables with low-fat dip or hummus.
14.  Choose low-fat or fat-free dairy products like yogurt, milk and cheese. These are great calcium and protein sources.
15.  For side items, re-think that bag of chips. Instead, choose carrots sticks, celery sticks with peanut butter and raisins, apple slices with peanut butter, fruit salad, whole fruit, raisins or pretzels.
16.  For dessert, think beyond the cookie. Try whole-grain graham crackers, ginger snaps, raisins, unsweetened applesauce, homemade muffins or fresh fruit.
17.  Choose a beverage that hydrates, like water, or choose low-fat or fat-free milk for additional protein, calcium and vitamin D. Avoid drinks with calories and no nutrients.

Make it fun!
 
18.  Add some fun touches to the meal. The traditional peanut butter and jelly sandwich can become pretty boring. Get a couple of cookie cutters and have kids cut the sandwich into different shapes.
19.  Include the kids in the preparation process and give them choices. Take them along when grocery shopping. Let them pick one new fruit or vegetable each week that they would like to try. Let them help pack their lunch.
20.  Think beyond bread when making sandwiches. Think whole-grain bagels, whole-grain pita wraps and whole-wheat tortillas. A good alternative is a whole-wheat pita pocket with hummus, shredded vegetables and grilled chicken strips.
21.  Pack a variety of options to keep a child’s interest. Avoid packing the same lunch every day — this prevents kids from getting bored.
22.  Vary the preparation. Try grilled or baked, chopped or grated, plain or with a dip.
23.  Practice good nutrition yourself. Children learn by association — you need to be a role model. Discuss with them the benefits of healthy eating.
24.  Don’t get discouraged if your child rejects a food on first taste. It can take 15 to 20 tries before a child gets used to a new food.

A nutritious lunch does not have to be boring or cost you a fortune. Making small changes can save you money. Try one or two tips each week and soon you should see some relief in your grocery bills. Remember that well-nourished children have a greater chance of success at school because they have the fuel and the energy they need to play and learn.

Tuesday, August 21, 2012

KIDS SCHOOL LUNCH IDEAS


AUGUST 21, 2012 - KIDS SCHOOL LUNCH IDEAS 

Easy Kids School Lunches
Okay, so sometimes I post recipes that I realize later are not easy, nor helpful. This is one of those sites that has so many ideas, you will find something that you can work with!

http://family.go.com/food/pkg-school-lunch-recipes/



Monday, August 20, 2012

NATIONAL RADIO DAY


AUGUST 20, 2012 - NATIONAL RADIO DAY 

National Radio Day celebrates a great invention and communications medium, it is always on August 20.
The invention of the radio dates back to the late 1800s. A number of inventors played a role in creating this important medium. A number of inventions and discoveries were required to make the radio a reality. This included both transmission and reception methods and technology. The radio somewhat evolved from the telegraph and the telephone, with wireless telegraph directly contributing to its invention.
Celebrating National Radio Day is easy listening. Simply tune into your favorite radio stations, we suggest local. You could also give your local radio personalities a little recognition.  Request a song...you may even get to hear it! :)


The Origin of National Radio Day:
We found some evidence on blogs and radio station websites suggesting that this is a more recently established holiday, dating only to the 1990s. Radio station personnel, in a number of radio stations, began talking about creating their own holiday. After all, they frequently promoted bizarre and unique holidays of all kinds. From these conversations, this special day took on life.
Our research did not find a identify an individual or group having created this day.
We did not find any documentation confirming this to be a "National" day. We found no congressional records or presidential proclamation.

Friday, August 17, 2012

NEW LONDON TEXAS


AUGUST 17, 2012 - NEW LONDON TEXAS 

We got into a conversation yesterday regarding the explosion that destroyed my high school in the late 1930s...they did not believe my story that the rotten eggs aroma was added to natural gas due to this horrific tragedy.  When you spend your whole life hearing the story, you believe...but there is documented proof of the accident and the history of New London, Texas--and what is now my alma mater West Rusk High School.  I am a proud student of this public school system, and proud that my children have a great Missouri school like Cape Central High School to attend!

This is the school district website link about the tragedy:
http://www.westrusk.esc7.net/new-london-school.htm

The museum wibsite:
http://www.newlondonschool.org/index2.html


This is a video of the photos of the events:
http://www.onetruemedia.com/otm_site/view_shared?p=840116dbf08d42ea3cf96a&skin_id=601&utm_source=otm&utm_medium=image

Here is an aerial shot of Cape Central's new stadium:

See the resemblance? lol

Thursday, August 16, 2012

DINNER MADE EASY


AUGUST 16, 2012 - DINNER MADE EASY 

It can be so frustrating to try to provide dinner for the family, and work, clean, and still be able to get some sleep yourself.  Finding easy dinner prep ideas shouldn't be hard with all the sites online...but I thought you might like this one...hope this helps!


http://www.bettycrocker.com/menus-holidays-parties/everyday-meals/dinner-made-easy



Wednesday, August 15, 2012

BUDGET WISE HOME


AUGUST 15, 2012 - BUDGET WISE HOME 

Okay, this week is one of those busy/recovery weeks for us here...the rodeo was a lot of fun, and we are still working for you!

Here is a website I found that might make your home decorating a little cheaper, and a little easier!

Check it out!  
http://budgetwisehome.com/budget-bathroom-decorating-5/



Tuesday, August 14, 2012

KID FRIENDLY VEGGIES


AUGUST 14, 2012 - KID FRIENDLY VEGGIES 
There are so many things to get ready for the first week of school!
Here are some great tips for your kids:  20 kid friendly veggies!
Don't fight with them about broccoli--Enjoy!

http://www.parents.com/recipes/cooking/family-favorites/vegetables/ 

Monday, August 13, 2012

THE GREATIST.COM


AUGUST 13, 2012 - THE GREATIST.COM 
This is a fabulous website!  I don't know about all the recipes...some seem a little-different! lol
Enjoy!


http://greatist.com/health/52-healthy-meals-in-12-minutes-or-less/#



Friday, August 10, 2012

BIZARRE AUGUST HOLIDAYS


AUGUST 10, 2012 - BIZARRE AUGUST HOLIDAYS 
Bizarre August Holidays is the topic of today's almanac...Queen B thought this was a funny topic, and I agree.
Who comes up with this stuff, anyway?  And is it all just commercial hype? I don't know, but here you go: 
August is...
National Catfish Month
National Golf Month
National Eye Exam Month
National Water Quality Month
Romance Awareness Month
Peach Month
Foot Health Month

August 1 is . . . . . Friendship Day and National Raspberry Cream Pie Day

August 2 is . . . . . National Ice Cream Sandwich Day
August 3 is . . . . . National Watermelon Day
August 4 is . . . . . Twins Day Festival
August 5 is . . . . . National Mustard Day
August 6 is . . . . . Wiggle Your Toes Day
August 7 is . . . . . Sea Serpent Day
August 8 is . . . . . Sneak Some Zucchini Onto Your Neighbor's Porch Night
August 9 is . . . . . National Polka Festival
August 10 is . . . . Lazy Day
August 11 is . . . . Presidential Joke Day
August 12 is . . . . Middle Child's Day
August 13 is . . . . Blame Someone Else Day
August 14 is . . . . National Creamsicle Day
August 15 is . . . . National Relaxation Day and National Failures Day
August 16 is . . . . Bratwurst Festival
August 17 is . . . . National Thriftshop Day
August 18 is . . . . Bad Poetry Day
August 19 is . . . . Potato Day
August 20 is . . . . National Radio Day
August 21 is . . . . National Spumoni Day
August 22 is . . . . Be An Angel Day
August 23 is . . . . National Spongecake Day
August 24 is . . . . Knife Day
August 25 is . . . . Kiss-And-Make-Up Day
August 26 is . . . . National Cherry Popsicle Day
August 27 is . . . . Petroleum Day
August 28 is . . . . World Sauntering Day
August 29 is . . . . More Herbs, Less Salt Day
August 30 is . . . . National Toasted Marshmallow Day
August 31 is . . . . National Trail Mix Day

Thursday, August 9, 2012

FIRST WEEK OF SCHOOL


AUGUST 9, 2012 - FIRST WEEK OF SCHOOL 

Prepare Yourself for the First Week of School
Clear your own schedule. To the extent possible, postpone business trips, volunteer meetings, and extra projects. You want to be free to help your child acclimate to the school routine and overcome the confusion or anxiety that many children experience at the start of a new school year.
Make lunches the night before school. Older children should help or make their own. Give them the option to buy lunch in school if they prefer and finances permit.
Set alarm clocks. Have school-age children set their own alarm clocks to get up in the morning. Praise them for prompt response to morning schedules and bus pickups.
Leave plenty of extra time. Make sure your child has plenty of time to get up, eat breakfast, and get to school. For very young children taking the bus, pin to their shirt or backpack an index card with pertinent information, including their teacher’s name and bus number, as well as your daytime contact information.
After school. Review with your child what to do if he or she gets home after school and you are not there. Be very specific, particularly with young children. Put a note card in their backpack with the name(s) and number(s) of a neighbor who is home during the day as well as a number where you can be reached. If you have not already done so, have your child meet neighbor contacts to reaffirm the backup support personally.
Review your child’s schoolbooks. Talk about what your child will be learning during the year. Share your enthusiasm for the subjects and your confidence in your child’s ability to master the content. Reinforce the natural progression of the learning process that occurs over the school year. Learning skills take time and repetition. Encourage your child to be patient, attentive, and positive.
Send a brief note to your child’s teacher. Let the teachers know that you are interested in getting regular feedback on how and what your child is doing in school. Be sure to attend back-to-school night and introduce yourself to the teachers. Find out how they like to communicate with parents (e.g., through notes, e-mail, or phone calls). Convey a sincere desire to be a partner with your children’s teachers to enhance their learning experience.
Familiarize yourself with the other school professionals. Make an effort to find out who it is in the school or district and can be a resource for you and your child. Learn their roles and how best to access their help if you need them. This can include the principal and front office personnel; school psychologist, counselor, and social worker; the reading specialist, speech therapist, and school nurse; and the after-school activities coordinator.

Wednesday, August 8, 2012

RODEO MOVIES TO GET 'ER DONE


AUGUST 8, 2012 - RODEO MOVIES TO GET 'ER DONE

RODEO LOVING AND LIVING ... GEARING UP FOR SIKESTON!

The rodeo has inspired paintings, sculptures, books and film. To get you pumped up for the chutes opening in Sikeston, here are some great movies about the rodeo living and loving.  



8 Seconds (1994)
This film was dismissed due to it's star Luke Perry, who at the time was making teenage girls’ hearts flutter in Beverly Hills, 90210. But 8 Seconds actually offers a thoughtful and  and fairly accurate biography of the late rodeo champion Lane Frost. Perry closely resembles Frost, and if you know anyone from the Sooner state, you will recognize that he nails the Oklahoma accent. Cynthia Geary is the less than powerful female lead, but Stephen Baldwin steals the show portraying Frost's friend and fellow champion Tuff Hedeman.


Junior Bonner (1972)
Junior Bonner was a departure for director Sam Peckinpah, best known for his sequences of bloody violence, and for star Steve McQueen, whose screen persona was a cocky man of action. Critics loved this story of an aging rodeo champ hoping to win one last contest, but fans of the star and director didn’t get the high-octane mayhem they had come to expect, resulting in low box office receipts. Western lovers will enjoy it for the appearances of old cowhands Ben Johnson, Dub Taylor, and Donald “Red” Barry.
Rodeo Girl (1980)
Katharine Ross in a western is like Hayley Mills in a Disney filmalways worth a look, regardless of the particulars. In Rodeo Girl, based on the life of rodeo world champion Sue Pirtle, Ross plays Sammy Garrett, a cowgirl whose dedication to building the Women’s Rodeo Association threatens her marriage. Ross brings her usual authenticity to the role and is ably supported by Bo Hopkins and Candy Clark.

The Cowboy Way (1994)
Take two rodeo cowboys and deposit them in New York City on a rescue mission to find their missing friend. The classic fish-out-of-water setup in The Cowboy Way plays out well thanks to the likeability of stars Woody Harrelson and Kiefer Sutherland, and the amusing if predictable moments when their country smarts keep them one step ahead of the city dwellers. It’s worth seeing just for the interrogation scene at the Central Park Zoo.

Colorado Cowboy: The Bruce Ford Story (1994)
“I’m a cowboy. It was born in me and bred in me,” says Bruce Ford. “It’s a life I love.” This documentary follows Ford through bareback riding competitions on the rodeo circuit, showing both the thrill of the competition and the stress on a cowboy’s family when he is away from home for months at a time.

The Rounders (1965)
It’s hard to imagine that a western starring Glenn Ford and Henry Fonda would, in its original release, be relegated to the bottom of a double bill. But that was the fate of The Rounders, a highly underrated comedy-action film about two old cowhands scuffling to earn a buck in Sedona, Arizona. Legendary bronc rider Casey Tibbs appears in the film, which inspired a short-lived TV series starring Patrick Wayne.

Ruby Jean and Joe (1996)
Though Tom Selleck plays an aging rodeo star, there’s admittedly not much rodeo in this made-for-TV film. Instead, the focus is on Selleck, as Joe Wade, and his unlikely relationship with Ruby Jean (Rebekah Johnson), a young hitchhiker who hangs around after the ride is over.

The magazine to find all things cowboy and rodeo is one of my fave reads when we attend the National Finals Rodeo in Las Vegas...there are always copies laying around!  Check it out.